James McConnachie studied at Jesus College, Oxford, where he was awarded a scholarship and the Jesus College Association Award for the Arts. He graduated with a first in English.

He wrote travel and reference books for Rough Guides for ten years, and in 2008 was shortlisted for Sunday Times Young Writer of the Year for his study of the Kamasutra, The Book of Love (Atlantic, 2007). He is now working on a biography of a Himalayan mountain, to be published by Bloomsbury.

James has been a lead reviewer of non-fiction for the Sunday Times for the last ten years, and alongside some 250 book reviews has written features for the Times Literary Supplement, Sunday Times Magazine, Spectator, Observer, Guardian and Aeon. In 2013 he was a judge on the Samuel Johnson Prize (now the Baillie Gifford).

He is the editor of The Author, the quarterly journal of the Society of Authors and, to his surprise, is a weekly agony uncle for Metro newspaper. He has presented TV and radio programmes for the BBC and Channel 4, and has given talks at the V&A, South Bank, Jaipur Literary Festival and other venues.

James is currently a director of the Authors' Licensing and Collecting Society and is a passionate advocate of authors' rights.

Please email books AT mcconnachie DOT net or tweet to @j_mcconnachie. James is represented by David Godwin.

Rough Guides

Now in paperback
Published by Rough Guides

The Rough Guide to Sex

Zoe Strimpel in The Observer
“a comprehensive, fearless book, part socio-history and part manual… A history of courtly love jostles with Samuel Pepys’s masturbatory diary, lesbianism through the ages, how to choose a dildo and the merits of plastic vaginas… One of the most refreshing, and valuable, aspects of the book is its feminism… The whir of facts, stories, eras, oddities, myths and practical advice makes your head spin dangerously. But on the whole, sex is contextualised here with great flair and variety, and it’s a work that is well worth reading”

The Rough Guide to Conspiracy Theories

Bevis Hillier in The Spectator
“unusually intelligent and laced with black humour… One at once begins to feel confidence in writers who can frame such a finely phrased definition. They revel in ‘the sheer creative and iconoclastic energy of the conspiracist world’.”

The Rough Guide to Nepalimage


The Rough Guide to the Loireimage

The Rough Guide to Parisimage

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Metro agonies – January 2016

I’m one of the three agony columnists for the Metro newspaper. Our editor chooses snippets of the advice we offer. Here’s what I wrote in full one week. 

Our correspondent writes:

“I live in a big house share which is very sociable and when a new girl moved in I developed a bit of a thing for her. She seemed to feel the same and we’ve spent a few nights together in recent weeks. She’s got quite intense lately and wants to spend every night in one of our rooms, when my phone goes she looks at it and when I say I’m going out I see a flicker of annoyance on her face. Last weekend i came home in the early hours and found her waiting on the sofa for me. The thing is, if all of the above didn’t happen quite so often, I’d want her to join me on the night out but i need a break from her! I didn’t see any of this possessiveness before. She actually was quite aloof and chilled out about house things. This morning she came into my room without knocking, got into my bed without being invited and now wants us to go away for a night to get some ‘privacy’ but I’m feeling quite the opposite. What’s the best way to navigate this road?”

And this is my longer reply:

'Wash my fur’, say the Germans, 'but don’t get me wet’. Or, as the Hungarians put it, 'you can’t ride two horses with one arse’. Your two horses, here, are your independence and this sexual relationship. You can’t have both. You seem surprised that this girl likes you and wants to spend time with you. Actually, you seem more than surprised – you seem offended by what she’s doing. But she’s just showing you she likes you, and thinks that having sex with you meant more than just, well, having sex with you. And why not? You slept with her, repeatedly. You spent time with her. You even seemed to like her a lot, at the start. But now you expect to behave as if she doesn’t exist, except when it suits you to recognise her. The truth is that if you really liked this girl you wouldn’t be freaked out by her waiting up for you and you wouldn’t bridle when she came into your bed. You’d be grinning all over your face. You’d read 'possessiveness’ as 'affection’. No, the only way to 'navigate this road’ is to put up a massive concrete barrier with flashing lights all over it. Tell her you do not want a relationship. Apologise for sending such mixed signals. And then nobly bear the fury and scorn she’ll rightly pour on your miserable head.   

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The Book of Love

In Search of the Kamasutra

Now in paperback
Published by Metropolitan, US
Atlantic Books, UK

Book Jacket

An engaging, enlightening “biography” of the ancient Hindu manuscript that became the world’s most famous sex manual

The Kamasutra is one of the world’s best-known yet least-understood texts, its title instantly familiar but its actual contents widely misconstrued. In the popular imagination, it is a work of practical pornography, a how-to guide of absurdly acrobatic sexual techniques. Yet the book began its long life in third-century India as something quite different: a seven-volume vision of an ideal life of urbane sophistication, offering advice on matters from friendship to household decoration. Over the ensuing centuries, the Kamasutra was first celebrated, then neglected, and very nearly lost—until an outrageous adventurer introduced it to the West and earned literary immortality.
In lively and lucid prose, James McConnachie provides a rare, intimate look at the exquisite civilization that produced this cultural cornerstone. He details the quest of famed explorer Richard F. Burton, who—along with his clandestine coterie of libertines and iconoclasts—unleashed the Kamasutra on English society as a deliberate slap at Victorian prudishness and paternalism. And he describes how the Kamasutra was driven underground into the hands of pirate pornographers, until the end of the Lady Chatterley obscenity ban thrust it once more into contentious daylight.

The first work to tell the full story of the Kamasutra, The Book of Love explores how a remarkable way of looking at the world came to be cradled between book covers—and survived.

Michael Dirda in The Washington Post
“the real Kamasutra is even more fascinating than its myth… McConnachie has written an altogether first-rate work of intellectual history for ordinary readers.”


William Dalrymple in The Times
“James McConnachie’s elegant and stylish Book of Love tells not only the story of how and where the Kamasutra came to be compiled, but paints an enticing picture of the society in which it was written.”


Wendy Doniger, Mircea Eliade Distinguished Service Professor of the History of Religions in the Divinity School, University of Chicago
“A delightfully racy and adventurous life story of a book, combining thorough scholarship with fascinating Orientalist gossip. The Book of Love illuminates both the luxurious third-century world that gave rise to the Kamasutra and the nineteenth-century colonial explorations that brought it to Europe, as well as our own often hilarious response to it.”


Stuart Kelly in The Scotsman
“McConnachie’s book is a vastly entertaining and consistently intelligent guide to the history of this misunderstood and vaguely disreputable book.”


Frances Wilson in The Sunday Telegraph
“A fascinating cultural history which puts the Kamasutra back in its rightful position." Full review.


Ian Pindar in The Guardian
"this scholarly and enjoyable book rescues Vatsyayana’s masterpiece from the grubby little corner of the bookshop to which it has been condemned for so long.”


Nicola Doherty in The Erotic Review

“a fascinating biography … This compelling and very readable account dispels the myths around one of the world’s most influential books”


Christopher Hart in The Sunday Times, 5th August 2007
“A scholarly, stylish and entertaining study of the ancient Hindu text on erotic pleasure." Full review Paperback review


Lee Siegel, professor of South Asian religions at the University of Hawaii and author of Who Wrote The Book of Love
"Wonderful, so interesting, so engagingly written, so savvy, so very, very well conceived and articulated … a great piece of work.”


Lucy Moore, author of Maharanis: The Lives and Times of Three Generations of Indian Princessesimage

‘A beautifully written exploration of the Kamasutra’s third-century Indian world and how profoundly its nineteenth-century “discovery” and dissemination has affected our own.’

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